The Man's World That Women Don't Understand

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·2 months ago

원본 (Korean)

Translation + Context

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My husband is crazy. My kid got bullied at school. The bully pushed him and they got into a fight, and my kid's nose started bleeding, blood got on his uniform, it was a mess. But this guy, the bully's dad, asks if he made sure to stomp him out properly. My kid says he won, so my husband's like "then that's fine." But then I say we need to open a school violence case, and the bully's side says if we do, they'll counter, and he's like since he won the hierarchy's been settled anyway, what's wrong with that? And my son's also like don't overreact, we already made peace with each other. I'm seriously so frustrated.

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My wife keeps telling me to punch people in the nose if anyone bullies me or my friends, saying she'll handle the aftermath. So I'm like nah, we should talk it out instead, but that's just how she is lol

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If both sides are throwing hands it could be a problem, but if one's got fists and the other's talking? No problem lmao

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I told my cousin punching someone in the nose means you win, and if they talk back you just hit harder. Then he actually got in a nosebleed fight and told his mom I told him to do it. I got absolutely destroyed by his mom....

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Did good. Since you were born a man and you're already fighting, gotta win lol

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Should go for a canker sore instead of the nose

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If you won AND made up after, then what's to complain about

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There's a hot world of manhood that women just don't get

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Women don't know that violence is a way to settle conflict

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You doing Shin-chan stuff? What are you, 5?

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Don't let women get involved in men's business. Celebrate the victory with some fried pork cutlets

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Fried pork cutlets or fried shrimp for us!!!!

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Seriously though what's the problem?

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The issue is the law doesn't recognize the man's world, so this could mess up college admissions later

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Is fighting considered school violence? (genuinely asking)

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If you're just trash talking and arguing that's school violence #1, if it's serious content it's #2 lmao

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So mutual fighting is school violence? (genuinely asking)

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Since there was mutual physical violence, I guess it counts as school violence

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honestly this title is so vague it could mean literally anything, what is the man's world exactly?

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not this debate again but lowkey some of these points hit different ngl

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Actually it's a really tough issue. Growing up in your teen years, it was natural to roughhouse and throw hands with classmates and friends... but there's no clear line between that and so-called 'school violence.' If there was mutual fist-fighting, who's the victim and who's the perpetrator? Is the one who started it first the perpetrator? The one who threw more punches? The one who won the fight? It's complicated. When I was a kid, we'd be playing in the playground and someone would pick a fight, and we'd scrap all the time... Do kids nowadays even play in playgrounds? Do moms nowadays let their kids go to playgrounds?

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It'd be better to just harshly punish everyone who threw hands rather than treating clear bullying as just a regular friend dispute without distinction

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If the bad feelings go away then responding with school violence charges is fitting, but if it's resolved then I dunno

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If they made up then it's done. Adults need to stay out of it

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If a guy didn't have at least one fistfight during school years, I consider him a man with zero testosterone

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real talk

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I spent my school days as a total otaku loner but I think I got in like 5 fistfights throughout school

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When people think like this, sons end up punching other kids and adults are like "that's just what guys do!" and blame the victim student instead